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On March 9th, 2009 there was an accidental injury at my daycare by no fault of my own.  A child was sitting up in front of our lego play table.  She lost her balance, falling face forward onto the table causing it to slide the opposite way, and bumping into the legs of a toddler standing across.  This domino effect forced her to fall over on top of the first child, who was the only one injured.  I immediately administered first aid and used my best judgment in the care of the child.  I was running late for a previously scheduled doctor’s appointment so I gave my assistant follow-up directions.  The mother worked with another daycare parent of mine so I called her place of employment and informed her of what had occurred.  When the parents came to pick the child up at the end of the day, she was happily sitting up and playing…but I was in tears because I felt absolutely terrible that I couldn’t move fast enough to avoid the accident, which had caused minor injuries on her face.  It was one of those things that happen so fast, right in front of you, that you just can’t get to quick enough.  I understood the parents being upset since I have young children also and I would feel the same way.  They were concerned that maybe her nose could have been broken, which I assured them I had checked for that and cleaned the inside with a q-tip, but having her checked by a medical professional could confirm that.  They took her to urgent care that evening and called me the next morning to let me know that she had not suffered any internal injuries whatsoever (ie: no broken nose) and that she was doing much better.  I was very glad to hear that because I had such incredible feelings of and distress, wishing I could have done something different…just as any mother would feel with no ill intentions.  The father then told me that they had decided to withdraw her from my daycare because they wanted her to be somewhere with less “toddlers”, maybe just 2-3 other infants at the most.  I told him I respect his decision and that they were welcome to come and pick up her belongings that evening.  He said they had a follow-up appointment with the pediatrician that afternoon and they would come over after that.  Apparently, the doctor then had noticed she had child-size bite marks on her arm.  The parents informed me of this when they came to pick up her belongings and I was in shock.  The only thing that came to mind was when I had to move the play table she got hurt on and I went to get my 1st aid kit to use for her.  I was sincerely apologetic and concerned all over again.  They claimed that Child Protective Services had gotten involved, questioning the involvement of the parents.  I told the parents I would willingly share with CPS my incident report & summary of events from the prior day if asked.  I had also contacted my state licensing inspector to let him know what had happened and to ask what steps I needed to take.

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I am Sabryna 16 years old and i feel like giving up, on my family. It is hard to love them. I was telling my father about a chick at school and the problems that she has been giving me. Normally i would have been all up in her face being loud and fighting her. However that was last year and i am now trying to handle my problems in a different matter. But it isn’t that easy. finally i I laughed and just walked away. As i was telling my father this all he could say is everything that i did wrong. The whole time i was thinking to myself,” tell me to try my best and i could do it. Tell me that she isn’t nothing and i am doing the right thing. Tell me that my future is in my hands and i can make it” but all he could say is,”You need to be more aggressive! Waalkingaway isn’t going to solve your problems put some back bone in it!” i wanted him to support me. My mother is an alcoholic, neglected me when i was 1, lied to me 4 years ago and never called me again. My step mother doesn’t like me because i speak my mind. And the only person that i have is my Best friend Charles who i am in love with, but my father dislikes. My life and emotions are based on my family relationships and i am ready to give up on them and finally be happy. However is that the right thing to do?….. i don’t know. continue reading…

I see the clouds getting closer every day, does that mean my family and I well reunite? My parents are divorced. And I live with a bitchy ass step mom who is my age, she is such a child. My dad’s 40, she’s 26. She finds every possible way to get my dad to like her more than me. She cheated on him twice, I told my dad but he’s to in love to realize. Now my mom is a crack head, I haven’t talk to her in a year. It breaks my heart that I wish I would have a motherly relationship with her, but she doesn’t want me in her life. When I lived with her, all she would do is bitch and yell how I’m not perfect,”nobody’s perfect.” I miss my sister, she lives with my mom; the only person who knows me. I can’t trust anyone in this world, just a whole bunch of bullshit and snitches. Life’s a bitch, i wanna know why god put me on this planet, Cuz I sure the hell don’t know. My boyfriend of 7 months already is probably going to end. I feel like I can’t give him my heart cuz all I think about is my heart getting broken again. it took years to reheal my heart. I wish I was a little girl again, playing with Barbie dolls, and all the boys had coodies. Life get so difficult when you get older, so for all those people out there who read my story, ” make every day the best day, and live it up.” continue reading…